

From Needs to Values: A Better Framework for Relationships
"You have power over your mind—not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength." — Marcus Aurelius There’s a common idea in modern relationships that sounds reasonable on the surface: they're supposed to meet my needs. It shows up in small ways: "They should know what I need.” "You're not meeting my needs.” “I need them to feel…" They all carry an underlying assumption that a good partner is someone who consistently delivers the right emotional experience. It mak

Dr. Don Schweitzer, PhD, LMSW
Mar 285 min read











