

Love Is Not a Ledger
"A relationship is not a 50/50 proposition. It is a 100/100 proposition. You don't bring half of yourself; you bring all of yourself." — Esther Perel Every relationship has a ledger. Most couples do not call it that. They do not sit down at the kitchen table, open a spreadsheet, and calculate who owes whom affection, appreciation, apology, patience, or effort. But the ledger is often there. I did the dishes last night. I apologized first the last time. I always initiate the h

Dr. Don Schweitzer, PhD, LMSW
Jun 107 min read











